We’ve all heard of the expression ‘Stuck in a rut’. Typically I see this with workouts that gym goers perform day after day.
‘Shay, I’m just not seeing any more progress’. This is regularly said to me. In some cases, I have people tell me that not only do they stop seeing progress, but they see regression.
This isn’t new or something that is confined to our fitness. We get stuck in a rut in life too. Our jobs can be like Groundhog Day. Our social life gets tedious. Yes, listening to John in the Nag’s Head complain about VAR for the third time this week gets boring. And our relationships can lose their spark.
Change is not a bad thing. It doesn’t need a whole reinvention of yourself. But it does need a bit of thought on how you can adapt to today’s you.
Last year’s you might have got excited about a 5k run, but today’s you doesn’t.
Your job might have challenged you when you started it 5 years ago, but today’s you isn’t.
Going to the pub at the end of your shift was a way of unwinding ten years ago, but today’s you doesn’t.
And your partner used to love watching a Steven Segal boxset on an evening with you when you first got together, but be careful, they might have changed.
Change the formula.
You’re not stuck. You’re just committed to certain patterns of behaviour because they helped you in the past. Now, these behaviours have become more harmful than helpful. The reason why you can’t move forward is because you keep applying an old formula to a new level in your life. Change the formula for a different result. Love and respect the person that got you here, but have the same love and respect for the future you too.
Thank you for reading my article. Speak soon!




















